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How To Navigate the Social Media Sport with Your Gymnast – Stick It Lady LLC


 

How To Navigate Through Social Media with Your Gymnast - Stick It Girl Blog

Teenage and pre-teen norms dictate that youngsters have telephones and are energetic on platforms like Instagram and TikTok (let’s not overlook Snapchat too) the place comparability is at all times taking place.

Some gymnasts appear to navigate this world of social media with grace, posting lovely movies of themselves at their finest, and seeming to be un-phased by this social comparability. However even the most completed gymnast can really feel strain to maintain doing properly when she sees different gymnasts outperforming her on social.

It is a tough state of affairs to navigate for each father or mother and gymnast. Based on Jill Hicks, faculty recruiting advisor, gymnastics coaches use Instagram as their main supply of recruiting. They scroll by means of feeds and take a look at expertise and accomplishments of potential recruits. So having an Instagram account feels like a good suggestion in case your baby is trying to get recruited to a school gymnastics program.

However, if I keep in mind appropriately, Jill additionally talked about that social is not that vital till a gymnast is at the very least a Degree 9. That is when faculty recruiters begin taking curiosity. Earlier than then it isn’t vital to have an Instagram account for recruiting functions.

So what if in case you have a Degree 4 or 5 gymnast who desires to put up movies of herself on Instagram? And what if these movies are lower than stellar in comparison with the content material that you just see from different gymnasts on the market?

It is a nice query and one thing I’ve heard dad and mom battling currently. The reality is, there isn’t a proper or unsuitable reply. All of it boils all the way down to what you are feeling comfy with as a father or mother.

One of many massive negatives of permitting your gymnast to have her personal Instagram is that it opens her as much as the world of social comparability.

She will be able to now scroll by means of and see what not solely her teammates are doing but additionally each single gymnast on the planet! She may see gymnasts who’re youthful than her doing expertise which might be more durable. Or she may she gymnasts her similar age who’re at the next stage. And this will result in a serious dip in self esteem.

 

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However, social media additionally opens your gymnast as much as inspiration.

She will be able to see gymnasts attaining expertise she may wish to obtain. And this will help to encourage her and provides her hope. It could even join her with gymnasts from around the globe and provides her a inbuilt help system when she posts her fails or struggles. Some gymnasts have made finest associates by means of social by being model ambassadors or participating in occasions that require them to journey and spend time with different gymnasts at a retreat or picture shoot. So social media undoubtedly has its constructive advantages that may outweigh the negatives.

Even nonetheless, I do know many dad and mom wrestle with whether or not or to not get a social media account for his or her gymnast. And this will trigger a riff between father or mother and gymnast. If that is so, it is vital that you just sit down along with your gymnast and converse brazenly about your issues in addition to hear her perspective.

Listed below are some solutions for the way to have a dialog along with your gymnast about getting a social media account:

1. Take heed to what your gymnast is actually asking for.

As a father or mother who is likely to be in opposition to social media, it is easy so that you can mechanically shut down your gymnast’s requests for a social media account. You may hearken to her requests with out actually listening to what she is saying. Nevertheless it’s vital that you just perceive why she desires to begin posting her gymnastics movies on instagram. 

Is it as a result of she’s the one one on her staff who does not have an account and he or she feels neglected? Feeling neglected is a troublesome feeling, particularly for an adolescent lady. If all of her teammates are aware about info earlier than her as a result of they see it on their social media accounts, that’s going to contribute to your gymnast feeling socially remoted and presumably decrease her sense of self-worth.

Is it as a result of she feels happy with her progress and desires to doc (and presumably exhibit) her expertise alongside the way in which? It is vital to permit your gymnast to give attention to the journey and the method of getting new expertise. If we wait till expertise look excellent earlier than posting, it sends the message that the “messy” stuff is not value acknowledging. Social feeds are a good way to doc progress and to maintain a journal of kinds.

Does she wish to create an Instagram for school recruiting functions? If that’s the case, keep in mind that this is not as vital till the upper ranges. However she will at all times begin an Instagram now and afterward conceal the older posts from her feed for those who really feel you do not wish to broadcast these much less completed moments.

 

2. Compromise by discovering an answer that feels acceptable to each of you.

Your gymnast is likely to be begging for a social media account and also you won’t need her to have one. What’s a compromise you possibly can come to that may appease each events?

One resolution that has labored for some households is for mother to be the one accountable for her gymnast’s social media account. Mother may create an account in her gymnast’s title after which put up movies because the season progresses. However in the end mother is posting and monitoring feedback and messages. This fashion your gymnast can nonetheless borrow your telephone and take a look at her profile however she is not the one making the selections over what to put up.

One other resolution is for you as a father or mother to make use of your personal account to put up movies of your gymnast. Much like above, you’re in cost however this time all the movies keep on your private account as an alternative of a separate gymnastics account. When your gymnast is at a excessive sufficient stage to consider faculty recruiting, you may then swap over to a toddler account that you just handle.

Lastly, as a father or mother you can create an account in your gymnast and your gymnast can put up content material…however you monitor the account typically, together with monitoring content material and messages.

Once more, there isn’t a one dimension suits all strategy to social media. The underside line is that you need to discover a system that feels good and works for your loved ones. If you end up actually resisting the concept of your gymnast having a social profile, ask your self why? Is it since you’re nervous she will not have the ability to deal with the criticism? Is comparability a difficulty? Are you scared this can make her really feel horrible about herself as a gymnast?

One factor I’ve realized from this technology of gymnasts is that they’re hard-wired in a different way than us! It is like they have been born media prepared. That is to not say that social media does not have an effect on their vanity as a result of I’ve seen firsthand the way it does. However having a social media account is an efficient studying lesson for the way to navigate this “new” media-infused world. We are able to solely maintain our kids sheltered for thus lengthy (belief me, I’ve tried it with my youngsters). So some dad and mom in the end determine to embrace it.

 

3. Have conversations about what you see on social so your gymnast understands what she is seeing.

One of many hardest issues I deal with as a psychological efficiency coach is having gymnasts who’re continually evaluating themselves to the gymnasts they see on social media. I remind them that these gymnasts are posting their highlights’ reel. Every thing they put on the market are from their finest routines or competitions. The “unhealthy” days or weak routines do not get air time on their feed.

If you happen to can have an open dialog along with your gymnast about this idea, it might assist her understand that what she sees on social is not at all times actuality. I feel it is also vital that you’ve her learn articles or watch podcasts/interviews from completed gymnasts who discuss brazenly about their struggles by means of gymnastics.

Many elite gymnasts have had psychological blocks or struggled with nerves and concern of their careers. Some have had horrible coaches who have been verbally abusive or ignored them once they did not carry out properly. I feel it is vital to share these hardship tales along with your gymnasts so that they study that the glory they see is just one piece of the journey. Most of gymnastics is not as glamorous as what they may see on social media.

 

How to navigate the social media game with your gymnast - Stick It Girl Blog 

Social media could be a double edged sword. We wish to shield our gymnasts from the comparisons and imply feedback however on the similar time they struggle to belong to that world, since that’s what they have been born into. There isn’t a proper reply nevertheless it’s at all times vital that you just comply with your intestine and have religion that your gymnast can deal with greater than you assume. 

That is undoubtedly a dialog value persevering with! When you have any feedback about this subject, I might love to listen to about them within the feedback beneath and/or in my non-public Fb group.

 

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If you happen to or your gymnast wants help, along with the sources beneath I additionally provide one-on-one teaching classes through Zoom.

 

Gymnastics Mental Blocks Guidebook for Parents

 

Useful Hyperlinks:

 

 

Gymnastics Mental Coach Anna Kojac, M.Ed.



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